Biggest Dating Mistakes Men Make
Hi, I'm Selna Kim & We Will Be Going Through A DM Sent By A High Status Member Of #TEAMSK About How He Can Get Girls Interested In Him At The Start, BUT Then They Just Lose Interest.
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Here's what the writer has sent in, and my answers are in [BOLD]
"Hey man can you help me out? [Alright, alright. If you insist (;]
So this almost happens every time I meet a girl. At first, they show they are interested in me and then BOOM. Suddenly they just aren't anymore.
[I'm going to give some of the biggest dating mistakes that men tend to make below: and they don't even realize they are doing these.]
Not Screening Out Women:
Basically, they take any girl they can get even if the girl is giving off huge red flags. I don't think this is you specifically, but this does effect A LOT of men out there. It shows desperation.
2. Pursuing Only One Woman At A Time:
This is kind of controversial. I think if you're single then it's important to keep your options open. But once you start hanging around a girl that you really click with, then you will automatically start to push others away. But don't do this too much. We've all had that one friend who gets a girl then cuts EVERYONE out of their life. But at first, you should just let people come into your life as they will.
3. Bringing Up Past Relationships:
This can come in two ways: First, guys will ask girls about their past and then get jealous and insecure about it. But then the guy will talk shit about his own past relationships. You should put a positive spin on your past relationships. We are surrounded by people who are very negative, and toxic. So why contribute to that? Don't bring up your past unless she asks and keep it subtle.
4. Too Submissive:
Think of the guy where everytime a girl says she likes something, "I love country music." Then he's like, "Oh me too! Me too! Oh, yes I do too!" He doesn't have anything to stand for.
5. Too Needy:
Basically the guy is too clingy. If she doesnt text back in an hour then he's double texting because he's worried she's out with another man, or she's losing interest. You have to know what you can control versus what you can't control. When you try to control the uncontrollable then you will become anxious.
6. Seeking Approval:
This is critical. Let's say the girl is on a date with a guy, and every so often he will ask her, "Are you okay? Are you having a good time?" Because he's so scared of what others think about him.
7. Buying Things:
A lot of guys will buy things for a girl when they don't deserve it. On the first date guys will bring flowers and they don't even know her. At least he's trying, but it also shows insecurity at the same time. Or in the club a girl will ask, "Buy me a drink?" And most guys just go and buy her a drink. But now she sees she can walk all over you.
8. Too Many Compliments:
I think this is self-explainatory. But a lot of guys will slide into a girls DM's and say, "You're so pretty, what's your number?" XXX NO. I literally have a whole DM-ing guide in my AMP Installment.
Guys will go on dates trying to show off their car, their rings, houses, and they think it will get the woman. And it might get a gold digger, but this will not consistently make a girl want you in the long run. Maybe for one night, but she will leave you for someone who's richer, better looking, and has more material things.
10. Being Predictable:
Women want a mystery. I talk about this in my book thorughout the whole thing. They don't want you to be predictable.
If you want to really get this girl hooked on you, then make sure to read Waking The Core Of Man. And also jump into my AMP Installment.**
Good luck boss, SK