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Selna Kim

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America's face of dating

"the world's most trusted dating and relationship coach"

- New York weekly

I can help you

If you're a guy with a decent career, take care of yourself, but still can't seem to get A serious relationship

Learn my natural attraction methods to attract your dream girl in 30 days, boost confidence 10x, and never have girls go dry on you again👇🏻



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**Selna Kim's EROS program Hall of Fame Client Interviews & Results**

(Eros is the name of the Greek God of Love AKA 'Cupid')

Watch this video and listen to Martin's story on how he started Eros completely shy and awkward. He chased women and got rejected. Now notice his confidence and his results of getting chased by 3 girls at once! 

Here's Australian client Danny on how he started this year extremely depressed, and even went through a break up. Now listen to how just only 3 weeks in my Eros program turned his entire life around. Now he's running a 6-figure business!

Watch Camilo's story on how he went from shy and awkward to attracting multiple girls at once. He's now a ladies-man and girls love talking to him! They can't get enough!

Watch how Britton joined EROS and had NEVER been in a relationship and now has his dream girl. 

Listen to Saul's story on how he was a successful entrepreneur but still couldn't talk to his dream girl. After joining EROS things changed very fast..

Watch Juan talk about how he went from shy beta male to an extremely confident alpha male very quickly because of Eros. At first he started very uncertain, but now listen to how he's flirting with women! 

Click this video to listen to Jaime's story.. He was a huge fan, joined Eros, and it helped him not only attract his dream girl but also he learned how to have an effortless, healthy, non-argumentative relationship!

Listen to Eros Client Jaron's Story on how he was with a toxic ex-girlfriend, and after working with me he left that behind and started to attract what he really deserved!

Listen to Moses' story on how it was incredibly difficult to talk to a girl before Eros. Now notice how he applied some simple tips and now is dating a girl that every guy wants!  

Watch this video on Deon, before the Eros Program, got friend zoned by a girl from his work. After joining, he learns how to flirt effectively and escapes the friend zone. Notice his newly found charisma in this video

Listen to Germany client Kai speak on how important Eros was for his self transformation with women. He applied what he learned through the program to win a girl he was pursuing for over 3 years! 

Watch this testimonial to see how Eros client Owen (FROM ALASKA) obtained unshakeable confidence. He's also moved in with his dream woman currently!  




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Selna Kim - America's Face of Dating
Teaching You How To Be The Exception

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The key to winning in attraction, dating, and even in business, love, or personal relationships isn't having the nicest car, money, or the newest iPhone. 21st Century studies reveals that the key is learning the skills behind being the exception - the one who is able to bend the rules of what's possible. This is the person that she's with and cancels on others for. The individual who women, business, power, and money chase. At 20 years old, Connor (Selna Kim) McCanless woke up realizing he wasn't the exception, but the polar opposite. 

Heartbreak and constant rejection were the themes of his life. After experiencing his parent's divorce and being placed in a shelter at a young age, others outcasted him in school and bullied him. Isolation created a lust for some sort of connection, but whenever he put his heart on the line (Like the typical Hollywood movie) it was crushed every time. 


"There were the guys who 'had it' with girls," Selna Kim quotes, "and then the guys who didn't. I was one of the many who didn't." He knew that he would be a failure forever if he didn't do something about it. Fortunately, one of his best friends was a world-class club promoter who had the power, money, models, and secrets that Selna Kim desperately wanted to get his hands on.


Not only did Kim unlock these secrets, but it turned his life into a

movie. Receiving an invitation to join one of the Midwest's top club

promoting industries, he went from loser, reject, and the guy that

women ignored to models, raves, private jets, and more. Knowing

nothing but poverty, bankruptcy, and working in an Amazon warehouse

making $13 per hour this new life became extremely addicting. 

At first, it was the dream but, over time, he began to feel

more empty, frustrated, and unfulfilled. 

At first, he believed his passion was winning the heart of the

woman of his dreams, but it was actually when he taught it to his

friends and shared similar results with them that he felt most fulfilled.

Retiring from the community, he decided to write his first book

'Waking The Core Of Man' for men struggling with attraction, dating,

and relationships revolved around his time in that community. 

Now he spends his time reading, studying, and learning from the world's best peak performance, relationship, and life coaches and also applying his life teachings to individuals who are seeking answers like he once was. He now teaches, coaches, and mentors multi-millionaire's, athletes such as: America Ninja Warriors, and many more how to bring incredible success, peace, and comfort in all areas of their lives including: Health, Attraction, Dating, Relationship & Marriage, Business, and Mental-Emotional well-being.

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