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How To Approach A Shy Girl

Hi, I'm Selna Kim & We Will Be Going Through A DM Send By A High Status Member Of #TEAMSK About A Girl Who's Shy And He Wants To Know How To Approach Her

(Video below):

Here's what the writer has sent in, and my answers are in BOLD

"Hi bro, how’s your day going?

[Amazing bro, we are killing it on Team SK. Literally had my best month ever with views and sales of books and clients.]

I’m trying to brake the ice w a girl And I’ve also started to read your book

It’s amazing

[Of course, I spent over 2 years writing that book and over $10,000 to get it professionally edited and reviewed by the New York Times. I take that book VERY seriously. I personally believe it’s the best book in the world if you want to take your game to the next level. It’s like a download chip. You read the book and it changes your life forever.]

But she’s in my school and we kind of see each over sometimes but she’s kind of shy and I don’t know how to approach her.

[People who have had overprotective parents and authoritarian parents are more likely to grow up to be shy. Because they are commonly shut down in conversation, so it trains them to not open up in conversation.

But they have walls built up and you want to lower their walls.

However, a girl who is more confident then you probably want to tease her more and have more playful banter with her. But a shy girl, you want to match her energy.


If you’re super strong and come on to a shy girl then it’s going to make her very uncomfortable.

You almost want to come in like the Trojan Horse. Nonthreatening. But then seduce her from the inside out.


Also do not ask close ended statements. Basically, “How was your day?”

Her: “Good”

Now you have to ask her another question in order to get her to open up. Which makes it seem like you’re chasing her. Which is NEVER attractive.


Soft Tease her.

Basically, “I love it how flustered you get around me (;” Then change the subject.

Also build commonalities with her. Ask her about those professors that you have. Or those annoying ones. You want to get her to chase you as fast as possible. You want to get her to seek your validation.

If you want to learn more then make sure to FINISH Waking The Core Of Man. And also jump into my AMP Installment.

Good luck boss, SK

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