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If She Ghosts You Do This...

Hi, I'm Selna Kim & We Will Be Going Through A DM Send By A High Status Member Of #TEAMSK About A Girl Who Ghosted Him On The Day Of Their Date. But After Going No Contact, She Reaches Back Out. What Should He Do...

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Here's what the writer has sent in, and my answers are in BOLD

"Bro I need your help, [Damn, no 'I love your content or nothing' just straight into it You're rushing me lol]. So basically I’m talking to a girl and we agreed to have a date, and she said she would text me that day and she didn’t said anything.

[Girls will most likely test a man by not texting him the day of the date. She wants to see if you chase her or if you emotionally react. You did 1 of 2 things right. You didn't chase her. But you are reacting. Which is understandable. Girls will tell a man that they'll do something, but then not do it just to see how he reacts. Annoying, yes. But only if you don't understand. You did the right thing by not texting her. PLUS you need to set a definite date. This means, "hey I will pick you up at 7 pm, or meet you here at 7 pm. If you get there first, then get a table. If I get there first then I will get a table. If you just say, Wednesday then that's too broad and basic.]

I didn’t text her as well, and now after 4 days she called me asking if I was available today and I said I wasn’t, but I told her I was available next week. Do you think I should meet her? Or what do I do?

[You went 'no contact' and now that she saw you were high value enough to not chase her then of course she reached back out. I would tease her first, "Hey, you blew me off so now you have to make it up to me (;" BUT YES. Do the date. And give her a great time to begin making her chase. If you need to learn more on how to do that then I HIGHLY recommend either my book or my online class or working with me one-on-one.]

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