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Selna Kim Reads BANNED Pick-Up Artist Techniques

I’m Selna Kim and I received a fascinating PDF in my email today containing apparently BANNED techniques from the pick-up community. They banned these techniques because, according to legends, they were so powerful that they were making people fall in love in 15 minutes, making women want to sleep with you in 15 minutes, ruining lives, and one guy cut off his own testicle for the woman he loved.




I’m Selna Kim and I received a fascinating PDF in my email today containing apparently BANNED techniques from the pick-up community. They banned these techniques because, according to legends, they were so powerful that they were making people fall in love in 15 minutes, making women want to sleep with you in 15 minutes, ruining lives, and one guy cut off his own testicle for the woman he loved.



>>> My Responses <<<

Regular Email


>>> If you’re not familiar with the pick-up world then let me run you through what a routine is.


Routines are basically scripts in the pick-up artist’s head that they pull out to use on a girl and they include steps on what to say and what to do. At the end she will supposedly be in love with you, more attracted to you, or whatever the goal of the routine is. Most are used to make a woman obsess over you.


On this list, the routines created were apparently so strong that they were classified from the industry for being too dark and too powerful. I’m going to read some of them and let you decide whether you want to use them or not. <<<


The first routine on the classified list is known as Fractionation (October Man’s Sequence) – Where the inventor of the technique has claimed to be able to make a woman want to go to bed with him in as little as 15 minutes.


Basically it’s “positive – negative theory” which means that you talk about things which are positive or pleasurable and then immediately follow about things which are negative or painful.


i.e “Do you remember the time when your best friend is just next to you and it makes you feel so happy. You feel loved, important, and appreciated. Can you imagine the feeling? I used to but then one day my best friend got sick and died almost as soon as she got into the hospital. She was gone.”


>>> (I’m not going to lie, but these examples are a little fucked up… lol) <<<


Then combine these with a series of NLP techniques and also anchoring.


>>> NLP is very powerful. It’s almost like hypnosis by you using your hands. <<<


“Have you ever met a person who you feel that he is meant to be with you? (Point to yourself subtly) Even if you’ve only met him for 5 minutes, you know deep down inside you that he will be an important part of your life, whether as a partner or only a friend. (Pause) I have experienced that myself. I met someone who I grew very close to very quickly. But only a few days later she got into a horrible car accident. She was gone.”


>>> Kind of messed up.. AGAIN. <<<


In the above example, pointing to yourself is the anchor. Associate the anchor to good feelings.


Once you’ve brought her thorugh the emotional rollercoaster through alternating cycles of pain and pleasure, it’s time to escalate physically. Here’s how:


Ask her, “Inside every woman there is a natural woman who is yearning to get out from the social barriers and conditions. If you can be this ‘natural woman’ without any social inhibitions, what would you do?”


Ask her where the ‘natural woman’ is and then touch her there to escalate.


Banned Technique 2: The Boyfriend Destroyer Sequence


>>> I know personally that this one works because I had to use this one in the club promoting world. Especially during my first tryout which got the attention of the NY Weekly when I had to seduce a platinum blonde 5-star model from LA BUT also steal her from an NFL football player. Ch. 5 Part 9 of my book. Puppet Master. <<<


Boyfriend destroyer techniques hinge on the principle that every partner has got imperfections – and by amplifying these imperfections you will create doubt in her mind if her boyfriend is her ideal partner after all. The biggest mistake that one can make is to try to convince a woman LOGICALLY that he is better than her existing boyfriend. Don’t do that.


>>> True. It’s about how you make her feel, not logical. <<<


Instead, imply (or plant in her mind) that you are the superior man by following this sequence:


1. Find out the „faults‟ of her boyfriend.

2. Amplify the faults (using the techniques below).

3. Imply that you‟re the better choice as you do not have that particular fault.


Common Fault: Being Boring

Amplification: “He’s being too comfortable with you, and that’s why he is not particularly adventurous with you anymore. Does he feel more like a brother to you now? With me, I know things get predictable after awhile, but I like to keep things spicy in a relationship.”


Common Fault: Being Needy

Amplification: “I wouldn’t blame him, really. You’re probably the only thing that is going on for him in his life, and you have to remember that he needs you to feel important.”


Common Fault: Being Abusive

Amplification: “This happens when the man is not able to control himself emotionally. He can’t control the things that are happening inside his head, and so it all comes out in a physical manner. He is probably trying to make you stay with him desperately, knowing that he won’t be able to get another woman.”


Rake Routine #4: Strawberry Fields Forever


>>> So, this one is pretty simple, but it seems like it would be very effective. I’m not sure if this made a guy chop off his own testicle, but I’ll let you decide. <<<


This is a routine which is designed for physical escalation. Recommended only when you have developed sufficient rapport with the girl. A good state transition device (from comfort to sex).


“Imagine that you are now standing at the gates of a strawberry field. You are alone. There are tasty, ripe strawberries in the field. Can you see the strawberries?” (Yes)


“How high are the gates surrounding the field?” (This indicates how easy or hard the girl is to give sex)


“Imagine you’re now inside the strawberry field. How many strawberries would you pick and eat?” (This indicates the number of sex partners she desires)


“After you finish eating the strawberries, you realize that you have been observed by the farmer from afar. How do you feel about him?” (This indicates how she feels about her partner after sex)

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